In the heat of the moment, your partner places their hand around your throat and provides a gentle squeeze to the sides. You feel the tingling of an instant rush to the head, all senses heightened, all pleasure magnified as you fall into an other-worldly state of bliss. Gently, your partner releases and you feel the welcomed oxygen spread throughout your entire body as you return back into yourself and the moment — racing endorphins completely engulfing you. I myself have become a fan of choking during intimacy but have to admit that I was very skeptical of exploring that side of my desires due to a combination of misinformation and fear-based education. Erotic Asphyxiation started to be documented in the US back in the 17th century as a self exercise to help erectile dysfunction.

Wrapping your big, thick hands around my neck or me trying to do the same with you. You get choked out all the time. I had to admit, getting choked out in the ring, even if it was by another guy, did feel kind of fun.

This type of sexual activity involves intentionally cutting off the air supply for you or your partner with choking, suffocating, and other acts. People who are into breath play say it can heighten sexual arousal and make orgasms more intense. Still, this activity is an increasingly recognized kink, and steps can be taken to make it somewhat safer for the curious. Different types of breath play pose different risks, and precautions can help you prevent possible issues. Like many other kinks and sexual curiosities, breath play is of interest to people for many different reasons.